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How To Say I Love You
By Jason Taingahue Finding the right moment in time to say to someone that you love them can be challenging. Timing, feeling's toward the person and knowing there motion towards one's self is of up most importance as well.
Knowing how to say I love you isn't as easy as one would expect and those three words "I love you" can have a reflection on your life and that of the one you love forever.
First of all we must understand the feelings towards your self from the other person, before we can even begin to knowing how to say i love you. And to do this we must look back on the time that has already been spent together and look at all the positivity that has brought you to this moment of realizing you love this person very much and want to say I love you.
Once you have bought together all the positive thoughts, we then must evaluate those precious moments that have been spent together and weigh them up with the negative's, which at this moment in time are usually out weighed. We are now closer to knowing how to say "i love you".
After weighing up all the negative's and positive's, we then must look at what make's you so happy in being with this person.
Is it there lifestyle? Could it be that they show you respect toward you and that of the children you have, if so from a previous relationship? Could it be that everything this person does in your eyes makes you smile or puts that tingly feeling in our heart everytime? After considering all of these things, you are closer to ever to knowing how to say "I love you".
Learning how to say I love you is a co-coordinated feeling of the heart and mind. Without both of these, learning how to say I love you to someone would only be half the equation.
Finding the right timing is important, especially when saying I love you to someone.
I would suggest to say I love you in a magical setting as in candle lit dinner or my favorite would be to quietly whisk them out to the beach on a nice calm night and take them for a walk with the cool breeze of the sea, so that you are able to hold them close when walking along the beach to keep them warm in that beautiful setting.
Knowing there motions in every day life is of importance as well as in what makes them become sad? What makes them happy? By knowing all these thing's, you are then able to respond to them promptly with positive feedback in helping them when you know they are down or staying on the same level with them when they are happy. Otherwise know as positive energy.
The aura of positive energy is very important when waiting to know how to say I love you to someone.
When we put together, timing, feelings and the motion's that we know about the person we want to say I love you to, then we have the perfect setting for the moment we are about to embark on.
Using the stroll on the beach setting and walking along the beach with that cool sea breeze blowing towards you, we would then start a normal conversation slowly tapering into that very moment of learning how to say I love you.
You would be talking about your life together and how happy you are to be with this person and then you would stop and turn front on to the person and steer deep into there eyes holding both hands and say to them something along the lines of "You know you make me happy and every moment we spend together I treasure. Whenever you are near me, my heart skips a beat. You're always on my mind and my life is complete with you in it. From the bottom of my heart I want to say I love you".
And from that moment you move towards that very person and kiss them on the lips and them hold them in your arms. This hold is magical, because it is the comfort of the hold and those words "I love you" which brings the moment to a new beginning of an even more fulfilling and happier life forever.
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