How To Pleasure A Woman

By Jared Neilsen
There are no hidden secrets when it comes to giving a woman pleasure. The fact that you have made an effort to read this page is the starting point to pleasuring yours and everyone else's women.

It is assumed that woman perceive pleasure as men do, that being the pleasure of a beer and a woman for company. Yet women, more so than men, want different things from their partners to achieve pleasure.

Women are aural and sensual beings. To pleasure a woman one needs to do more than stand in front of her in your boxers with a pack of condoms and a bottle of whisky. To give a woman pleasure in a sexual environment requires self-control. Unless your life is like a Playboy letter, you will need to do the groundwork before you even get the chance to ravage her.

When trying to give a woman pleasure, you must focus on her. There is no point in staring at another's rack when you cannot even hold a conversation that does not involve sports. Listen to what she has to say. Value her opinion. Refrain from patronising when she asks stupid questions. A woman will get more pleasure from being listened to than being talked to.




Once you have shown her how much you are interested, and what a sensitive person you are for listening, you must show her that you are considerate. Women, apart from feminists, appreciate you showing concern for her. Walking two steps in front of her so no other woman think you are together will not make her feel wanted. Buy her something which she has shown interest in not just a clichi box of chocolates.

Now she believes you actually care about her, she will find you incredibly sexy. Women are inherently attention seekers. You have shown that you listen, value, care and appreciate her. You have given her pleasure.

Unfortunately, she will also want the same behaviour in bed. To give a woman pleasure during sex is much like out side of the bedroom. If you focus on making her feel good by listening to what she wants you will be a better lover. There is no good in pushing her face down on the bed and doing the old wham bam thank you ma'am routine. Try to get pleasure from satisfying your partner and they will do the same for you.

Once you have given your woman pleasure, expect her to show her appreciation of your efforts. By not focussing on your woman as a toy, handbag, object or slave, you will have a successful relationship based on mutual satisfaction in and out of the bedroom.

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