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How To Give A Lap Dance
By Jen
Lap dances!! All the guys love them! Well most of them do, and all us woman feel totally angry if another woman so much as tries to give our partners one, so we might as well learn how to give our partners one instead!
Mostly lap dances are associated with strippers or call girls however wouldn't you rather give your partner one at home instead of them going somewhere else.
Of course you do not have to give some one a lap dance in public, private is always good as well especially if you lack the confidence to show your lap dance to the world or you are too embarrassed or if you just plain want the lap dance to be given to loved ones eyes only.
Ok before you give a lap dance, you must be totally confident in performing one; you must be comfortable with yourself and the person you are performing for.
Now you must choose the music if you should want it, it should be slow and sensual, enough to slowly move around to.
Create a romantic almost erotic atmosphere, position where your partner or the lucky lap dance receiver is going to be.
If you do not feel comfortable dim the lights, and or use some candles.
Clothes wise girls!! Pick something the lap dance receiver is going to love, you can always go kinky with the school girl outfits and the long high heel boots, however if none of those are in your reach, a good set of beautiful lingerie is always going to be a hit.
If you are going to strip wear a set of clothes over the top of your lingerie.
Ok before you start giving your lap dance tell your lap dance receiver the boundaries, usually that he can not touch you what so ever, this adds to the atmosphere and certainly can work a guy up.
However whether or not you want to strip completely naked when you give your lap dance is up to you, it is your comfort zone that applies no body else's, you could leave some clothes on to add to the imagination of your partner or the lap dance receiver, who knows there could be really good benefits.
Basically whatever you do when giving your lap dance is up to you, your moves and your actions are all up to you as well.
You could start by being a few feet in front of him and swaying your hips from side to side in a sensual swirling motion, the basis of giving a lap dance is to tease the watcher or lap dance receiver.
Every now and then get as close as possible to them, use every part of your body to tease them, even rub your hands across your body while dancing will tease them.
Remember to smile every so often at your partner and if your up for it take some of your clothes off teasing him in between.
Turning around and straddling him, giving them a great view of your behind and shaking it sensually can work just as good as well because you are so close and they cant touch.
You can dance all the way up to them and then bend down ever so slightly and show your breasts to them, rubbing your hands over them softly, you can also rub whatever body part you like over them as well, your hair, your breasts, legs whatever.
The best action when giving a lap dance is straddling them, and undoing whatever you may be wearing over your breasts, guys love this.
The best thing however is to try on different clothes in front of a mirror and practice your moves to some music that way with the mirror you can always check out your performance.
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