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How To Flirt With A Guy
By Jenna Litchfield
Flirting, they age old ritual of obtaining a partner, the subtle look, the blatant look and the blatant gestures.
There are so many ways of flirting with guys, and so many reactions that you can get so matching the right flirting skills with the right reaction is just a guess that you hope you can get right!
Especially with the male counterpart, as some times males can be blatantly blind to any flirting you may do towards them.
Obviously every guy likes a different characteristic in a girl, however honesty id say is the big key, honesty and confidence.
So how do I flirt with a guy?
First of all try and not be nervous, however of course you're going be nervous if you have a obvious crush on that hot guy you have been drooling over for months, however try and be calm collective and always know what your doing and or look like you know what your doing, otherwise your flirting could come out as nervous, babbling rubbish!
If a girl can openly walk up to a guy introduce her self honestly and be totally confidant and flirt with him it can shine through and be immediately picked up with that hot guy!
Guys love it when a girl makes the first move and flirts with them, believe it or not most guys are incredible shy and if you make the first move it flatters them and definitely makes them realize you fancy them!
So introduce yourself, tell the guy your name, ask his! Encourage conversation, share interests with him, if you pay attention and ask a lot about the guy and he will definitely know your interested in him and are flirting, however try not to ask to in depth questions like what his grandmothers name is or some thing of the sort as that could scare the poor guy off!
Do not gossip or talk about any one in an ill manner while flirting as it can be perceived as being a little blabber mouth, talking about people in a nice way is good way to be perceived as a nice girl with a caring and sweet attitude!
Laugh with him at his jokes, however only if there funny, laughing at ill mannered jokes while flirting is really bad.
Playing with your hair is a good flirting skill, however careful not to make it that obvious, just brush a few strands out of your face as your talking.
Eye contact is a big part in flirting, looking into a guys eyes is like looking into his soul, but however try and not look like your staring at the guy strangely from the other side of the room with that puppy dog look, you don't want to scare him off! look into his eyes when your talking to him or when he walks past you just a slight gaze with a smile will get his mind wandering!
Do not act sleazy unless there is only one thing on your mind, then with all means do as you please however if you are wanting to snag a permanent guy then acting sweet and non sleazy is the way to go, don't forget those smiles!
Touching is also a big yes in the flirting department, the innocent touching when you walk past each other and brush your hands over the cute guy in a subtle way, or while laughing at his joke lightly touching his arm.
Most of all to get noticed, you have to want to be noticed, hang out where he does occasionally and just bump into him, share a seat in a cafeteria if he needs one, be extra nice to the guy and he will notice you.
So overall, be confident! He will never know you like him unless you tell him or show him.
Good luck with the flirting!!
See Also:
More information on flirting with men
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