How To Approach Women

By Jason Taingahue
Want to know how to approach women? There is no easy way to achieve this. For the confident and often cocky male, knowing how to approach women may seem easy but I'm sure that deep down inside they are just as nervous as the average Joe Blogs.

When learning how to approach women it is important for the person to make some sort of contact with the intended women they are considering approaching first. Body language is the best way to get her attention. Women often notice body language as a way of communicating and usually use this form of communication, to outline an opinion of the person before they have even exchanged any words.

As I said in the beginning the confident men who present themselves like pimps and strut up to women are not the type of men most women are wanting to approach them. Knowing how to avoid looking like one of these men is important.

After the initial, casual and flirtatious glance, be sure that you have something interesting to talk about when you first approach a woman. When you have summoned every last ounce of strength, and are walking over to approach and talk to this woman, remember, it is vital that you have at least one interesting topic of conversation in your head before you approach the woman, and hopefully it is an open conversation.



Don't make it a topic where it will likely infuriate the women, and make sure it is not a topic that only requires a 'yes/no' answer. You don't want to start a 'heated debate' and you don't want the conversation to be over before it has begun. So know how to keep a converstion alive. You want a subject that is good for a laugh, not only for you but for her as well. Laughter is a great way to suppress those nerves, and make no mistake, you will more than likely be nervous when you decide to approach a woman, but remember that she may well be nervous as well.

Make sure that when you are approaching women to hold yourself tall. Good posture and a warm smile are sure to get, at the very least, a conversation started. This may be your only intention, however, if your attention is a bit more amorous than that, make certain that you are prepared for rejection when you approach a woman. Don't take this too personally as most women only want to talk, at first and then see where it goes from there. So, bear that in mind, and learn how to keep your whole approach towards a woman fairly casual.

You may have to suck all those nerves up and swallow your pride to achieve your goal of approaching women, but once you get over these things, it will be second nature to you. Women can sense self-esteem, self-confidence and arrogance, so be sure to hold yourself well and just do it. Get it over and done with, don't leave the place thinking 'what if'. I'm certain that you don't look at every women and think of her as your future 'life partner', but you will never know, if you don't just take a chance. If she isn't interested, that's ok, don't take it personally. Always remember that this is not the only woman in the world, and everyone has to deal with rejection at some point in their life. Just smile and walk away.

The best advice on how to approach women I have to offer, is just to be as friendly as possible. A friendly smile and a positive attitude is surely going to help you approach women.

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