How To Approach Girls

By Leeanne Utiger
Know how to approach girls properly and you will in the very least be able to hold their respect for you and possibly have a great friendship.

Because this is about learning how, and knowing how to approach girls, I am going to take the angle of a teenager wanting to know how to approach girls. Because, let us face it, teenagers also have feelings and curiosity as well as adults do.

When you think you are ready to know how to approach girls, take your time and make sure you do not crowd them. Maybe a certain girl will know you already, and be quite receptive of the approach you choose to take, while maybe the girl you want to be able to approach is a girl you have been watching from afar. You will have to take this into consideration when you are learning how to approach girls.

You could start out when you first approach girls, to actually approach a whole group of friends, being girls of course. You can even do this with your group of friends. It can be as simple as that. One group of friends suggesting to another group of friends they hang out, or just sit and have lunch together, or maybe get together and head off to a football game as a crowd.



Maybe even a movie and make it a group event. This is one good way in being able to approach girls or a certain girl. When you use this approach none of the girls are going to feel singled out, therefore eliminating embarrassment or something more. Once you all get to know each other a little better, then maybe you could move on to the next step in being able to approach just one of the girls. The time may come when you feel like she is completely comfortable with the friendship that has formed between you, and that possibly something more may become of it. You should by now have additional confidence to when you first approached all of the girls as a group with your friends as a group. The more you place yourself in a social circle, the more your confidence will grow, therefore giving you the ability to approach girls single handedly with your head held high.

When you learn how to approach girls, you will learn that approaching girls in a quiet, polite manner works better than rushing up and practically being all over them. Girls do not like to be smothered in any way, unless it is their call. If you do not want a particular girl to be swayed away from giving you the time of day, I suggest you take note of the above. You could quite nicely invite a girl to the movies or to the park or the beach. Somewhere where there will be plenty of other people around. The girls or girl who you have chosen to approach will be more likely to accept an invitation if they or she knows there will be other people around her. This is called a safety net for them is all.

You may be having a bit of a party at your home, with your parents supervising of course. You could use the approach of inviting a few girls over to enjoy the party, and while they are there, pay one girl in particular, the one you really like, a little more attention than you do the others who attend. Strike up a conversation about something that will keep her interested in talking to you. What was once a glance at this girl across the school grounds could very well lead to you both dating. So rest assured, if you approach girls with care, and do not rush them or get in their face (so to speak) you are more than likely to gain a positive response.